Monday, 2 February 2009

secrets of successful marriages

SECRETS OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES marriages are heaven made. hey do you know that all successful marriages depend on two things. They are finding the right person and also you being the right person. Sometimes we often conclude that someone is meant for us but later we discover that we are not compatible. We should understand the institution of marriage properly as it goes beyond the coming together of two individuals. a successful marriage is like a good food I mean a good recipe with all the necessary ingredients. These ingredients are love commitment, understanding, concern and togetherness. If these above mentioned ingredients are present in your marriage then have no fear whatsoever. That leads to the question of what really determines a successful marriage. Sometimes we may not realize that the walls have started cracking and if we do we may not realize the implication of what is happening. There are signs to show that your marriage is in shambles and if you have experienced any of the points that are going to be mentioned, and then I think you should address it with utmost caution. 1. Regular conflicts: this happen when couples don’t reach agreement on something amicably, they shout at each other and sometimes the end result could be fight between them. This may also happen when either or both of them have had a difficult day at the office, when they return they may begin to take their frustration out on each other. 2. Not sharing ideas: if you experience this in your marriage yet you are thinking that it is a minor issue then you are wrong because any marriage that experiences this problem may just be definitely heading for a divorce. Most of the times couples are supposed to discuss everything under the sun. They talk about the good times, the bad times, how they feel on a particular issue and also discuss the children all in a bid to keep the marriage going. 3. Starving your partner of sex just as a reason for punishment. if do this then expect to achieve result then you are wrong because you will only be helping the marriage to collapse. Don’t you think that if your partner offends you, you should talk it over with him rather than starving him or she of sex.it won’t cut an ice? 4. Always spend time with each other.